I hate to admit it, but sometimes I can be 'that girl'. The one that normal guys don't approach in a bar b/c she has that 'unapproachable' look to her and is only checking out the abercrombie types, or the one who preaches to her friends that they should go out on dates even if the guy isn't all that cute, because, really, it's about his personality, not his looks, in the end, that makes a guy attractive while at the same time ignoring her own advice. Yes, I am definitely guilty of being that girl.
I tried being on a date with a guy before that is very nice and we have a decent conversation, but that's it. There's no attraction, no spark, no wow moment. I don't know why I don't give these guys a second chance (naks as if). They are nice, decent, cool people and they want to take the time to get to know me. And I'm just not interested. I think, in the end, the chase is a big part of it. If it's just too easy, getting them to like me for who I am, then there MUST be something wrong with them, because god knows no one who likes me right away is in their right mind, or at least that's what I'm thinking. So I start to pull away and make excuses for blowing them off and in turn, do the same thing to them, that I complain that guys do to me. A vicious cycle, I know. The problem is, I don't know how to get out of it. ( this was a post i copied I know I broke one of the 10 commandments anyways I hope Im like her, some people may say wtf! but I don't know I guess saying this makes me think that I'm cute!????)
I tried being on a date with a guy before that is very nice and we have a decent conversation, but that's it. There's no attraction, no spark, no wow moment. I don't know why I don't give these guys a second chance (naks as if). They are nice, decent, cool people and they want to take the time to get to know me. And I'm just not interested. I think, in the end, the chase is a big part of it. If it's just too easy, getting them to like me for who I am, then there MUST be something wrong with them, because god knows no one who likes me right away is in their right mind, or at least that's what I'm thinking. So I start to pull away and make excuses for blowing them off and in turn, do the same thing to them, that I complain that guys do to me. A vicious cycle, I know. The problem is, I don't know how to get out of it. ( this was a post i copied I know I broke one of the 10 commandments anyways I hope Im like her, some people may say wtf! but I don't know I guess saying this makes me think that I'm cute!????)
last update i told you guys that next update would me sentimental pero saka na.. barely had my breaks @ work. imagine ive been taking in calls for like 7 hours without any breaks at all.. it was payday yesterday and as usual ubos agad..okay gtg and i have to be ready for my 2am shift
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I think of myself as a nice decent guy, and I know women who remind me of what you said about yourself. Life can be so frustrating.
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